“Your only limitations are those you set up in your mind, or permit others to set up for you.” ~ Og Mandino
Four years
ago, my son came home from a 3-day YMCA Model United Nations Conference. Despite
his exhaustion, he was more passionate, driven and motivated than he ever had
been. This was notable because he was
already very involved with extracurricular activities and I didn't think it was
possible for him to get more involved. He
talked about the new friends he made, and how he learned so many new things.
While he
tried to catch up on homework and sleep, I went through his luggage to gather
all the laundry and I discovered that he received several awards. The next day I
asked him about the awards, and told him that we were so proud of his
accomplishments, but all he could talk about was the friendships he made at the
conference.
That was
the beginning of my son's 4 year experience with the YMCA Model United Nation’s
family.
On January
4, 2013, my husband and I attended the conference for the first time. It was my son's last year as a student
delegate, as he’s going off to college in August. It was his second year as Chairman of
Security Council, and all the student leaders are allowed to invite their
parents to observe the event and stay overnight, so he encouraged us to come.
The event
is held at The Hershey Lodge in PA, which is a beautiful hotel and convention
center. The YMCA advisers/coordinators
showed the parents around the Lodge and gave us an overview of what goes on at the
conference. This conference was attended
by almost 1600 student delegates from various schools in the northeast. The student leaders had been planning the
event for 9 months.
The
preparation involved multiple weekend trips to Burlington , NJ ,
where the student officers meet for many hours preparing every detail of the
conference. Their hard work and
attention to detail resulted in very well organized and successful conference.
This year's
theme was "Youth Empowerment". From what I observed in the conference
rooms, hallways, and in the massive main auditorium, the theme was successfully
implemented.
The numerous
student delegates, all dressed in business attire, carrying white binders throughout
the facility, were all serious about getting their voices heard. The delegation was divided into various
committees such as General Assembly, Nation Building, Security Council, African
Union European Union, Legal
Committee Arab League, ASEAN,
Environmental Technology, World Health Organization, International Court
Justice, International Criminal Court, etc,
Every
student represented a country, and by the time the conference began, each
student had done extensive research on their country.
Each
delegation exuded a sense of pride. Each student is guided through a process of
sharing opinions, formulating arguments, and working with team to further the
objectives they had prepared. At one of
the Security Council sessions that I attended, it was interesting to see how
the students worked hard to adhere to certain protocols (parliamentary
procedure) when debating or presenting their resolutions. The way they
addressed each other in conference was very respectful and professional,
reflecting the depth of maturity and future potential embodied by them all.
The
conference also emphasized character building and the importance of family and
the community.
"Peace
begins with the family." said one of the advisers who had worked at the
United Nations. He reminded the parents that “talks around the dining room
table” are as important as talks inside the walls of the UN.
Lunch is
held in the Grand Ballroom, which is a massive room, large enough for all 1800
attendees. During lunchtime, a variety
of speakers would make presentations. In
the lunch we attended, the speakers talked about the importance in giving back
to the community in some way - be it financially, or through volunteer work or advocacy. One of the students who lead this year's
service project, "Soles for Souls", fully engaged the emotions of the
entire room. Her good-natured enthusiasm, sunny disposition, and leadership in
the effort, was representative of the entire delegation. The experience assured me that this wonderful
group of young adults care not only about themselves, but also care deeply
about making a difference to the lives of others.
In a time
where we are bombarded by the media with sad news about violence and irrational
behavior, it was heart-warming to see that there are plenty of young people who
are driven and passionate, polite and respectful.
Winston
Churchill once said that "We make a living by what we get, we make a life by
what we give." Based on what I observed
at the conference, there are many young people who are pursuing wonderful
lives.
As my son
said to his committee members: "After the conference, you will experience
a post-MUN rush. You will feel like your brain is on fire. You will be moving
so fast. You will be driven. You will realize that by empowering yourself, you
are also empowering the people around you. It's not about what your strength or
passion or strength is, or why you are strong and passionate, it is about you taking
action and making things happen. This is
empowerment and that's what matters."
Needless to
say, I encourage you to read more about this YMCA Model United Nations program
and the YMCA Alumni Fund-raising challenge (a fund-raising effort to help any
student who wants to participate in the program)
"You may never know what results come of your action, but if you do nothing, there will be no result. " ~ Mahatma Gandhi
Great story about some amazing young people. Thanks to parents like you, our kids are headed in the right direction
ReplyDeleteThis is a very inspiring account of what actually takes place at the Model United Nations events. The dedication and commitment of our children to the betterment of the world stage, is awe inspiring. I commend them all. Thank you for bringing it to life.
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